I think part of me had been waiting for a witness.

Someone to notice the distance between where I came from and what I created. Someone to say, I see how hard you worked. I see what you changed. I see what you gave your children that you never had.

But eventually I realized something:

I was there for every mile of it.

I know the effort. I know the love. I know what it cost me to build differently.

I can enjoy being recognized without requiring recognition to know my worth.

I saw me.

For a long time, I thought healing meant building a better life around myself.

A cleaner home.
A safer home.
A calmer home.

And I did.

But somewhere along the way, I realized I was also learning to become the kind of person Little Jasmine could finally trust.

The adult who doesn’t yell.

The supervisor who gives breaks.

The woman who notices when something hurts.

The one who stays.

I didn’t just build a peaceful home.

I became one.